I have a few close friends who know everything about me, or do they? I guess I don't try to deliberately hide any aspect of my personality from anyone (except my deep dark secrets), but maybe they haven't had a chance to get to see that side of me yet. So here are a few things about me and/or annoy me that you may or may not know.
* I hate people being late. I absolutely hate it. It ANNOYS me beyond belief. If I can be on time, why can't you? Oh yes, you had "other stuff on". What makes you think that your previous plans are more important than mines? What makes you think I didn't give up something to keep a promise to meet up with you......ON TIME? Everyone is busy with work/family/traffic etc and I understand that. But if you are constantly late, or worse, constantly changing plans or even never giving me a firm answer as to whether to include you in my plans or not, you can expect my invited to do you drop. You can't make a commitment because of work or whatever else, thats fine. JUST LET ME KNOW instead of giving me the "Oh yeh, I'll try to be there" or the "Yeh I should be there, but I'll let you know" but then you don't. If you are able to always prioritise your work before meeting up with me, why should I continue to make an effort to ask you out or organise a catch up? If you are able to prioritise work, why can't you prioritise your friends for a change? Not all the time, but once in a while will be nice. I mean, is it that hard to come out and meet up once a month let alone show up on time?
If I make a commitment to meet up, I always try to keep it, and always try to be ontime. Some people I know are always late, so I try to MAKE myself be late but I'm still always earlier. What annoys me more is that some people are late cos they choose too. They were busy sitting at a cafe reading a newspaper rather than meeting up on time, or they always expect me to be early to get the table etc etc. Well guess what? I will leave. For those friends, if you are not ontime within 15mins, I WILL GO HOME. I would rather go home and call it at night then wait around for you to rock up at your own sweet time. My time is just as precious as yours. And calling me up telling me you're "just 5mins" away and then rocking up 30mins later, you also fall into that category.
* I can be such a girl. Seriously! I can! I have surprised some people because they see me as some ball busting career woman who will stand up for myself without a problem. That I am an "assertive" (read bitch) person who knows what I want. Yes, I am. But at times, I am also a girly girl. I like pretty things and sparkly things. I love my jewellery and I love anything butterfly-ish or flower-ish. Just like any other girl, I want to be treated and pampered like a princess. Ok, maybe not a princess, but I do want to be treated like any other girl! The occassional flowers, romantic dinners, walks by the beach and so forth. I love my fireplaces and sunsets (and sunrise as well if I could be bothered getting up). I would watch the occassional romantic movie so I could have a good cry or a good laugh. And sometimes, I would even blush and giggle *gasp*. I am terrified of creepy crawlies and I am one of those types who will grip onto your arm with a vice like grip and possibly draw blood with my nails during a horror flick. Maybe its because I am a Libra, where we're supposed to be the ultimate romantic type, hence girly, but we also believe in justice, hence my ball busting attitude. But yes, I can be such a girl, you might just need to pay more attention.
* To follow on with the girly point, I LOVE cooking. And I also love all my crafty stuff. Lets start will cooking. I love cooking. Its most probably heriditary. My mum is an AWESOME cook and so is my grandpa. Up until about 10 years ago (He's over 80 now), the government officials will ask him to cook and cater for big events etc. My mum can go out, eat a dish, come home and replicate it. All of my brother and sisters love to cook and are great at it. I love to cook, I just don't like to clean. I would LOVE to do one of those crazy meals where you need 3 days and 15 different pots to make one gorgeous sauce to go with some gormet meal. But I just can't be bothered doing the washing. Maybe when I get a dishwasher. I never follow recipes unless its baking a cake. I buy heaps of cookbooks, but I use them for inspiration. If you asked me for a recipe for a dish I made, I won't be able to tell you. I can tell you the ingredients, but I can't tell you how much and how long, everything I do is spur of the moment. I like to pick recipes I've never tried, make it and then move on to another dish.
Much like cooking, I take a similar approach to my craft making. Once I've mastered one, or atleast finished a piece of work that I find is good, I'll move onto something else. I've done my sketching and painting, my huge origami project and then I moved on to knitting. I spent a good year knitting enough things to wrap me from head to toe and created my ultimate scarf, a checkered scarf. Then there was the quilling. God there was the quilling......I spent over $200 on supplies alone. $200 on PAPER! I quilled heaps of things, cards, gift tags, gift boxes, photo frames and I stopped when I made a huge complex photo frame for my parents 61st birthday/41 yr anniversary. It took me a week of nonstop quilling, 4-6hrs a night to create that photo frame that had photos of our whole family. That then was put aside because I had "conquered" quilling.
Then there was the fabric flower making. Again, another $100 or so in material so I could make fabric frangipanis, butterflies and huge violets so I could give them out. That period lasted about a month. The latest would have to be crocheting. I started that last year and its continued on to this year. I thought I had reached the end of my crochet phase, but after our trip to the blue mountains where I saw this gorgeous crochet blanket, I'm tempted to keep it going.
* I don't have a sweet tooth. I have a fatty salty tooth. I can give up chocolate and lollies for a year if I want to, but put a bowl of piping hot chips sprinkled with chicken salt and I'm all gaga-googoo. Infact, give me any form of potatoe thats been fried and I'll behave that way.
* I get sugar rushes. And I mean I GET SUGAR RUSHES. Maybe because I don't eat much sweets, when I do, and I overdose, I have an attack. E.g. during Australia's biggest morning tea one year, I had 3-4 KK donuts. When I went back to sit at my desk, my head started spinning like I was drunk. Another example, we had Italian class the other week where we had a quiz, the winner will score a big block of chocolate. It was a tie so we decided to crack it open and eat in all during our break. I had ONE piece, 5mins later I was sitting at my desk laughing to myself for no reason. But then that could have been the caffiene in it. Oh, I also get bad caffiene rushes. ESPECIALLY if I have a Gloria Jeans Iced Mocha. I don't know what it is with that drink, maybe its the chocolate or maybe its the caffiene, but when I have that, I have a laughing fit! We went to Starbucks once during our fugitive hunting days, and Moishii ordered me an Iced Mocha with triple shots of coffee....I laughed until I cried for a FULL HOUR. But then so did Moishii, he had an Iced chocolate with "extra extra extra chocolate". In the car on the way home, I passed out, practically comatose cos the caffiene and sugar had worn off.
* I have an overactive sense of imagination. This is not a good thing when combined with the sugar/caffiene thing. We usually do our H.I. scripting over coffee, simply because Moishii knows thats when I get the best ideas. But then it can also act against me. E.g. Blue mountains and how I freaked out thinking the mannequine was moving behind the door.
* If you lose my trust, have a good time trying to earn it back. I take my friendships seriously, and I only surround myself with close friends I can trust. If you breach that trust, you may never get it back again.
* I love a sense of adventure. As much as I hate to admit it, despite all the crap that happens when I'm overseas with Moishii, I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. I think the reason I love going on holidays with him is because we never know what to expect. But isn't that the case when travelling anyway? Yes, but for us, nothing ever goes right. I'm not talking about adventures like taking a bush walk and seeing a multiple monkeys swinging in the trees. I'm talking about taking a bushwalk, seeing a monkey swing in the trees, onto another tree only to fall onto another monkey where they get on with some monkey business only for the monkey to fall off the other monkey and onto our heads who will then try to scratch our eyes out whilst the other monkey in the tree swings around throwing poop at us. THAT is the type of adventure I am talking about, and is most probably going to happen to us when we go on holidays together. Its one of those love hate relationships where we end up coming back from the holiday laughing about it because everything we didn't expect to happen, did happen, only 10 times worse.
* I think I thrive under stress and pressure.....or I'm a procrastinator. If it comes to crunch time, I always get my work done. But if there is no deadline, or its not a do or die situation, I feel like I am not contributing and I don't feel like working.
* I chop and change topics. ALL THE TIME. I was once chatting to a friend who mentioned that I'm forever jumping from one topic to another. As he was explaining this to me, I a thought suddenly came to me and we started talking about it, this is when he goes "Look! you just did it again!". I don't deliberately change the topic, but maybe its just the way my warped brain works. Maybe I'm some type of psycho genuis with all these ideas and thoughts bottled into me and I need some form of outlet. Or maybe I just can't concentrate on one thing long enough......Any of you who have read one of ranting and raving posts would probably have realised that. The very beginning of the post would have probably related to the topic, by the time you get to the bottom, you might go "WTF is she on about?". I seriously think its the way my convuluted brain works. One small thing can trigger a thought that would trigger another through that triggers another idea and so forth. So you're one simple sentence can trigger and ENTIRELY different seemingly unrelated topic in my screwed up brain. So anyway, thats why I love to go to the beach during summer.